Hey guys, so this set was requested by @gabrielleabir, and she meant like how to get your parents to leave you alone when you're studying, or doing chores and stuff and they won't get out of your room. So I thought long and hard about this, sorry if it's not very helpful but I hope you like it!
TALK;
This ties in with everything. You have to talk to them. Try to tell them that you have a lot of study/homework to do and you need to be left alone. Tell them that them being in your room all the time is very distracting, and also say that you need to be independent and you can get things done by yourself. Hopefully they understand and stop, but if they don’t, then you could contact and uncle or aunty, or a family friend to have a chat with them about your independence and just letting you get on with things.
TRUST;
You have to get your parents to trust you. Maybe the reason why they aren’t leaving you alone is because they don’t trust you, and they don’t think you are actually doing your work. So always do your work/study/chores when they need to be done, but if you’re slacking off, don’t let em catch you ;)
BREAKS;
If you’re taking a break, and your parents come in to check on you and realise you’re not working and start to lecture, you have to explain to them that you need to take breaks. Tell them you shouldn’t work too hard because you need to look after yourself. Make sure they know that breaks are important!
BE HONEST;
If you lie, and say that you’re doing your homework when you’re not, they could find out and make you do it where they are, or nag you about it.
OTHER JOBS;
If your parents ask you to do certain things for them when you get home from school, then try to get them done early before you start your study because otherwise they might lecture you about it and make you do them, interrupting your studying. If you really need to do lots of studying- as much as possible- then explain you can’t do the job right now because you have tons of studying to do.
So i really hope all of these tips help to get your parents to leave you alone. All parents are different, some are a little bit harder on you, but remember they always love you ;) ❤
TALK;
This ties in with everything. You have to talk to them. Try to tell them that you have a lot of study/homework to do and you need to be left alone. Tell them that them being in your room all the time is very distracting, and also say that you need to be independent and you can get things done by yourself. Hopefully they understand and stop, but if they don’t, then you could contact and uncle or aunty, or a family friend to have a chat with them about your independence and just letting you get on with things.
TRUST;
You have to get your parents to trust you. Maybe the reason why they aren’t leaving you alone is because they don’t trust you, and they don’t think you are actually doing your work. So always do your work/study/chores when they need to be done, but if you’re slacking off, don’t let em catch you ;)
BREAKS;
If you’re taking a break, and your parents come in to check on you and realise you’re not working and start to lecture, you have to explain to them that you need to take breaks. Tell them you shouldn’t work too hard because you need to look after yourself. Make sure they know that breaks are important!
BE HONEST;
If you lie, and say that you’re doing your homework when you’re not, they could find out and make you do it where they are, or nag you about it.
OTHER JOBS;
If your parents ask you to do certain things for them when you get home from school, then try to get them done early before you start your study because otherwise they might lecture you about it and make you do them, interrupting your studying. If you really need to do lots of studying- as much as possible- then explain you can’t do the job right now because you have tons of studying to do.
So i really hope all of these tips help to get your parents to leave you alone. All parents are different, some are a little bit harder on you, but remember they always love you ;) ❤
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